Without trust, love is unable to reach its full capacity. Like a rose, love can be a beautiful thing, but it also has the ability to pierce your flesh like a thorn and create a scar that will never heal completely. Without trust in a relationship, this is exactly what happens. Once a person is betrayed by one they love, that person cannot look at the one who betrayed them in the same way ever again. The Bible says in 1 Corinthians 13 that love “rejoiceth in the truth. ” To rejoice is to celebrate or be delighted. Love is supposed to be a happy thing, and this verse says that trust brings happiness to love.
Trust affects every area of a relationship. Being able to confide in someone creates a strong connection by opening up the lines of communication. If you really trust someone, you feel like you can tell them anything and everything and not even think twice about it. A sense of trust also gives a sensation of peace. Love is being able to trust someone and have peace of mind rather than worrying constantly about lies, backstabbing, or deception. There are times when you may really dislike someone whom you love, but “true love” is having assurance at all times that you won‘t be abandoned.
Making a commitment is making a promise, or giving your word to someone. In a relationship, a commitment would be a promise to be devoted to those that you love. When the going gets tough and temptations are strong, true love is steadfast in its journey through time. Love is an unwavering commitment to those that you love; whether it be a commitment to be there for family members when they need you the most, or a commitment to a spouse to be faithful to them and have no other. Those that are committed to one another often have to compromise to make things work.
Since love is about commitment, that makes love, too, dependant upon finding the middle ground. When a person truly loves another, that person has an willingness to sacrifice certain things in order to make the one that they love happy. My mom always tells me, “a relationship is supposed to be give and take, not take and take and take and take. ” This is so true in regard to love. One who loves another is willing to give rather than take, and take pleasure in doing so. 1 Corinthians 13:5 says that love “.. seeketh not her own.. ” which means that love puts others before herself.
When two people genuinely love one another, it isn’t necessarily easy to compromise, but it surely isn’t a nuisance either. These three virtues, along with many others, are what make love flourish. Love is anything but simple, but those who learn to love reap the benefits over time. Love is being able to open up your heart and trust people, even when you‘ve been hurt. Love is keeping a solid promise to be faithful and loyal. Love is sacrificing things in life in order to make those that you love happy. It is because of all these things, that according to 1 Corinthians 13:13, “…the greatest of these is charity. ”